Quiz: Am I Aromantic? Cupid’s Arrow Missed You?
Love is one of the main driving forces of our world. For love, people are ready for insane acts; it inspires artists and poets. But what if for you, love is something completely different? What if the very idea of romantic relationships seems alien and incomprehensible to you? Perhaps you are aromantic, and our quiz will help you understand your unique feelings.
What is Aromanticism?
Aromanticism is a romantic orientation in which a person does not experience romantic attraction and does not seek romantic relationships. Aromantics can love and be deeply attached to other people, but in a platonic rather than romantic sense.
It’s important to understand that aromanticism is not a choice, a phase, or the result of trauma. It is an innate characteristic, as natural and immutable as sexual orientation. Aromantics simply perceive romance differently than people with other orientations.
Aromanticism exists on a spectrum, and different people may experience varying levels of romantic attraction. Some aromantics do not experience romantic feelings at all, while others may feel them occasionally or in certain situations.
Why the “Am I Aromantic?” Quiz?
Many people, especially young ones, may struggle to understand and identify their romantic orientation. The “Am I Aromantic?” quiz is designed to help people explore their feelings and preferences in a safe and confidential environment.
A series of carefully thought-out questions will help you analyze your emotions, relationships, and views on love. You’ll be able to honestly answer the questions and get valuable information about how much your experience matches the signs of aromanticism.
It’s important to remember that the results of the quiz are not a final diagnosis, but rather a starting point for further self-discovery. They can help you better understand yourself and your identity, but should not be taken as an indisputable truth.
Signs of Aromanticism
To help you better prepare for the quiz and recognize potential signs of aromanticism, here are some of them:
- Lack of romantic attraction: You have no desire to pursue romantic relationships and don’t understand romantic gestures such as dating, hugging, and kissing.
- Comfort in being alone: You feel perfectly happy and self-sufficient without a romantic partner. Your happiness does not depend on being in a relationship.
- Deep platonic bonds: You are capable of deep attachment and care for close people, but in a platonic rather than romantic sense.
- Absence of “falling in love”: You have never experienced typical symptoms of being in love, such as euphoria, dizziness, and obsessive thoughts about another person.
- Misunderstanding romantic clichés: Romantic clichés such as serenades, candlelit dinners, and declarations of love seem unnatural or excessive to you.
If you recognized yourself in several of these signs, it’s quite possible that you fall somewhere on the aromantic spectrum. But remember, only you can determine which identity most accurately reflects your experience.
Difference Between Aromanticism and Asexuality
It’s important to understand the difference between aromanticism and asexuality, as these two terms are often confused. Asexuality refers to a lack of sexual attraction, while aromanticism refers to a lack of romantic attraction.
A person can be asexual but experience romantic attraction and desire relationships. And conversely, an aromantic can experience sexual attraction but not seek romance. It’s also possible to be both aromantic and asexual.
The main similarity between these orientations is that they expand our understanding of human relationships and show that love, intimacy, and fulfillment can take different forms, not necessarily involving romance or sex.
Shades of Aromanticism
Like many other romantic orientations, aromanticism is a spectrum with many shades and variations. Some of them include:
- Greyromantic – people who rarely experience romantic attraction, but it happens occasionally under certain circumstances.
- Demiromantic – those who experience romantic attraction only after establishing a deep emotional bond and closeness with a person.
- Lithromantic – experience romantic attraction but do not desire reciprocation or actual romantic relationships.
- Cupioromantic – enjoy the idea of romance in theory (books, movies), but do not seek it in real life.
- Frayromantic – experience a quasi-romantic attraction but do not consider it fully romantic.
These shades show how diverse and multifaceted the world of aromanticism is. Don’t be afraid to explore these nuances and find what resonates with your experience and feelings.
In Conclusion
Regardless of your quiz results, remember that being aromantic is normal and natural. It’s not a deficiency, but a unique feature that makes you who you are. Embrace and celebrate your aromanticism as a source of strength, freedom, and self-expression.
How to Play?
Click the "Start Quiz" button and answer each quiz question honestly. There are no right or wrong answers. You may encounter multiple-choice questions or statements to rate on a scale of agreement. Once you finish the quiz, you'll receive results that provide insight into your personality traits, including strengths and weaknesses. Use this information to increase self-awareness and make positive changes.
How many questions does this quiz have?
20 Questions
How long does it take to complete this quiz?
7 Minutes
Questions Overview
- Try to give them advice about what to do next.
- Try to change the subject to something less relationship-focused.
- You don't quite understand why they're so upset about it.
- You're relieved that you don't have to deal with such problems.
- You're moved and wish you could experience something like that.
- You find it amusing or enjoyable, but don't particularly relate.
- You're indifferent to the scene.
- You find it hard to understand why people enjoy such scenes.
- Sad and unfulfilled.
- You'd miss it, but life has other pleasures.
- Mostly unaffected.
- Relieved and happy with the freedom.
- Quite often, it's part of life.
- Occasionally, but it's not a big part of your experience.
- Rarely, and even then, it's mild.
- Never, you don't understand the concept of having a crush.
- Romance, passion, and a deep emotional connection.
- Companionship and mutual support, romance is secondary.
- Primarily friendship with a bit more commitment.
- The idea of a 'partner' doesn't really resonate with you.
- Happy for them and a little envious.
- Happy for them, but you don't relate to the excitement.
- You're glad if they're happy, but the engagement part seems unnecessary.
- You don't understand why people bother with marriage at all.
- Inequality and prejudice.
- The pace of life, everything moves too quickly.
- The overemphasis on careers and money.
- The obsession with romantic love and relationships.
- A date night with a significant other.
- Hanging out with a mix of friends.
- Time alone or maybe with a close friend.
- Definitely alone, indulging in your favorite activities.
- Excited and cherished.
- Appreciative, but it's not necessary.
- A bit uncomfortable, you'd rather receive non-romantic gifts.
- Confused, you don't get the point of romantic gifts.
- They stir your soul and resonate with you.
- You like them for their melody, not the lyrics.
- They're fine, but you don't relate to the lyrics.
- You can't understand why there are so many songs about love.
- Romantic love.
- Friendship with some romance.
- Friendship over romance.
- Friendship only, romance doesn't factor in.
- Excited and interested.
- Interested, but you're glad it's them and not you.
- You listen politely, but you can't relate.
- You find the conversations tedious and hard to understand.
- All the time!
- Occasionally, but it's not a big part of your daydreams.
- Rarely, your fantasies are mostly about other things.
- Never, you don't understand why people fantasize about romance.
- Excited and hopeful.
- Flattered, but unsure about reciprocating.
- Awkward and uneasy, you don't want to ruin the friendship.
- Uncomfortable, you don't want the friendship to change.
- It's a constant thought.
- Sometimes, but it's not a top priority.
- Rarely, it's not something that particularly worries you.
- Never, you don't believe in or want to find "The One".
- "The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love, and be loved in return." - Moulin Rouge
- "True friendship multiplies the good in life and divides its evils." - Baltasar Gracian
- "The capacity for friendship is God's way of apologizing for our families." - Jay McInerney
- "I am not a half. I do not need someone to complete me. I am whole on my own." - Ijeoma Umebinyuo
- You love it and look forward to celebrating.
- It's fun, but you don't take it too seriously.
- You're indifferent or feel it's too commercialized.
- You don't see the point in celebrating romantic love this way.
- Warm and loved.
- Pleased, but you don't necessarily feel the same way.
- Slightly uncomfortable, but you appreciate the sentiment.
- Confused, you don't understand the need for such declarations.
- Yes, it's an important part of life.
- It would be nice, but it's not necessary.
- Not really, you're happy with your friendships.
- No, you prefer to be on your own or just with friends.
- You're excited and flattered.
- It's fun, but you don't take it too seriously.
- You're indifferent or slightly uncomfortable.
- You're confused and would rather they didn't.
