Quiz: Do I Still Love Him?

Love is an amazing feeling that can uplift and inspire. But what should you do when doubts settle in your soul? When you catch yourself thinking: “Do I still love him?” It’s precisely for such moments that our quiz was created. This test will help you sort out your feelings and, perhaps, discover new facets of your relationship.

Why Do Such Doubts Arise?

Doubts in love are a natural part of any long-term relationship. Let’s look at the main reasons for their occurrence and how they affect our emotional life.

Routine and Everyday Life: A Romance Killer or a New Level of Intimacy?

Many couples face the so-called “domestic crisis.” Romantic dates are replaced by joint trips to the supermarket, and passionate declarations give way to discussions about utility bills. But is this really so bad?

• Positive aspect: Jointly overcoming everyday difficulties can become a kind of “glue” for the relationship. You learn to work as a team, distribute responsibilities, and find compromises.
• Negative aspect: If you don’t pay attention to romance, the relationship can turn into mere “apartment cohabitation.”
• Solution: Introduce a “date” tradition. It could be a weekly trip to the cinema or a candlelit dinner at home. The main thing is to spend time with each other outside of everyday problems.

Personal Growth: When Paths Diverge?

We all change over time. But what if your development paths start to diverge?

• Positive aspect: Each partner’s personal growth can enrich the relationship, bringing new dynamics to it.
• Negative aspect: If one partner develops faster or in a different direction, a feeling of “mismatch” may arise.
• Solution: Open communication. Share your new interests, invite your partner into your new world. You might discover new facets of your loved one.

External Factors: When the World Interferes With Your Feelings

Work stress, financial problems, family conflicts – all of this can affect our relationships.

• Positive aspect: Overcoming difficulties together can strengthen the bond between partners.
• Negative aspect: Constant stress can lead to emotional burnout and cooling of feelings.
• Solution: Learn to separate problems into “ours” and “external.” Create a “safety zone” in your relationship where you can rest from the outside world.

Love and Attachment: A Fine Line

Distinguishing between love and attachment is a key point in understanding your feelings. Love is an active feeling that motivates us to act, makes us strive for the best, inspires us. It’s the desire to make another person happy, even if it requires effort and sacrifice from us. Love implies readiness for relationship development, for changes for the sake of the partner.

Attachment, in turn, is a more passive state. We get used to a person, we feel comfortable around them. But we are not necessarily ready to change for them or make efforts to develop the relationship. Attachment can be comfortable, but it doesn’t give that emotional uplift that characterizes love. Sometimes, it can even turn into clinginess.

It’s important to understand that in long relationships, love and attachment often go hand in hand. And that’s normal. Problems arise when attachment completely displaces love. In this case, the relationship can become stagnant, devoid of development and growth.

Our quiz helps to understand these subtle nuances of feelings, to understand what prevails in your relationship – love or attachment. This is the first step towards awareness and, possibly, towards changing the situation for the better.

How the Quiz Works

Our quiz is not just a set of random questions. It’s a carefully thought-out self-analysis tool developed with the latest research in relationship psychology in mind. It covers all key aspects of love relationships: emotional connection, physical attraction, shared goals and values, communication and mutual understanding, willingness to compromise.

The quiz questions are designed to touch on both conscious and subconscious aspects of your feelings. Some questions may seem simple, others will make you think. They are all important for creating a complete picture of your relationship.

After taking the test, you will receive a detailed analysis of each aspect of your relationship. The results will be presented in the form of an expanded text, describing the strengths of your relationship and areas that require attention and work.

Navigating the Quiz Results

Once you get the results, don’t rush to conclusions. Remember that no quiz can give a definitive answer to the question of love. The test results are just a starting point for reflection and, possibly, a conversation with your partner.

First of all, take time for reflection. Don’t just skim through the results, but really think about each point. Try to recall specific situations from your life that illustrate various aspects revealed by the test. Write down your thoughts and emotions – this will help you better understand your feelings and prepare for a conversation with your partner.

An open dialogue with your partner is a key moment in working with the quiz results. Choose a suitable time and place for the conversation when you both will be calm and not distracted by other matters. Start with the positive aspects that the test revealed – this will create a favorable atmosphere for further discussion. Be honest, but tactful. Use “I-statements” instead of accusations. And remember that the purpose of this conversation is not to sort out your relationship, but to find ways to improve your connection.

Sometimes self-analysis and conversations are not enough. Don’t be afraid to seek help from a family psychologist. A professional outside perspective can help you see the situation in a new light, find solutions that you might not have noticed yourself.

Remember that love is not only a feeling but also an action. If you’ve realized that your feelings have cooled, think about what you can do to bring romance back into the relationship. Make a plan of concrete actions and stick to it. Start small: for example, introduce a tradition of daily hugs or leave each other sweet notes. Small steps can lead to big changes.

Finally, don’t forget to regularly assess your progress. Take the quiz again after a few months and compare the results. Celebrate even small improvements – this motivates further work on the relationship.